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♥ Monday, October 13, 2008

Ego Box"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."


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Pixel Icons at Ego BoxLove???Pixel Icons at Ego Box
Very cliche, I know, but most of us will have had this big question in our heads at a certain time in our lives. (or maybe the same question comes in different forms in different phases of life? ) Whatever it is,
you think you know what you want from life, and you are ‘in control’ and along comes this question in an orkut community.. “define love”..and you say oh yes…i know what love is…”true love” as they show in the films…”real love” as you thought you had felt…
and you start typing..
and you suddenly feel at a loss to explain what you feel about love.
Sometimes you just go …bah!…it’s all crap…just a concept that doesn’t really take form…
but then we do need someone in our lives don’t we?
Someone to share everything with?
Is it not love that bonds us then?
Or is it the compelling necessity of companionship that brings us together.

Being in love makes you dependent, it makes you vulnerable…is that true??
Of all the answers that were given to that question..one stood out, and was appreciated and applauded by many members of that community.
In fact I made friends with that person just because I liked the answer so much. Not that it was a perfect answer..It is very hard to find the kind of love that she has described..and harder to make it work..but if you want an almost complete definition of love,

here’s what Anindita Bhattacharya had to say:
To me love is:
You think about yourself, get to know yourself, build yourself up to be so strong that u are confident that u can handle your own life, that u don’t need anyone, that no one can hurt u without ur permission, that you are the master of your own life,
and then, u meet someone… who makes u want to surrender all of yourself, without hesitation, when you become ready to lay yourself totally open in front of him/her,all your vulnerabilities, your fears, your dreams, your weaknesses, your wishes and ambitions and principles, things that make you think and feel and wonder and laugh and cry,
when the tiniest of his/her unhappiness zoom straight inside your heart,
when you feel like bringing the whole world at his/her feet, just to make him/her happy, when you are ready to give him/her all the freedom and right over your life,
comfortable in the knowing that the other person is so strong that he/she will honour you, the you that you’ve opened up, & will never take advantage of your openness… will care for you because he/she wants to, not because it’s supposed to be that way,
when adjustment doesn’t feel like adjustment,
when u willingly make yourself flexible for his/her sake,
when the freedom between you makes your relationship stronger,
when u both start feeling that u need each other, not because u lack something, but because of how much both of you enjoy being part of one another’s lives,
& both of you want to practically take it forward,
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Pixel Icons at Ego BoxPLUS..
Maybe its LOVE....
if..
Accepts the other person as he or she is
Builds trust.
Started out as friendship
Lasts even when distance separates you.
Makes you feel relaxed and at ease with each other.
Allows you to do things without your partner
Makes you place your partner's needs before your own.
Gets stronger as time goes on.
Allows you to have friends of both genders.
Considers appearance as only part of the attraction.
Recognizes the other person's individuality.
Is rewarding without a sexual component.
Allows you to reflect things that make you uncomfortable.
Accepts your partner's fault. Pixel Icons at Ego Box

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HOW WOMEN THINK --FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments.FIVE MINUTESThis is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.

NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with "Fine"GO

AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows)
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine"GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"

SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow."GO AHEAD At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.

PLEASE DO
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay"

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you're welcome.

THANKS A LOT
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing"

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